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Monday, December 18, 2006

Contradictions of Obstetric Care That Make Hospital Birth Unsafe

There are so many contradictions in obstetric, hospital care --- these contradications and the care because of them make birth unsafe in the hospital.

One of my "favorites" is when a woman who is 37 weeks has a spontaneous membrane rupture. She is immediately on a time frame imposed upon her by the medical establishment. I have noticed that this is one of the situations that will inevitably lead to the cesarean surgery "for failure to progress." What the midwives know is that it can be days before labor begins and that the risk of infection is very low outside of the hospital. The risk of infection is because it is the vaginal exams that increase chance of infection in the hospital environment. At any rate, it is required that she be on intravenous antibiotics (a direct entry to her blood and one of the conditions that makes her more suseptible to hospital-acquired illness.)

On the other hand, if a woman at say, 33 weeks has a spontaneous membrane rupture she will be put on medication to prevent the labor so the baby can stay in the womb and develop. She is often IN the hospital and subjet to vaginal exams.

Why is it safe for a baby before 37 weeks but not after? Why can't a woman with ruptured membranes at 37+ weeks stay at home until her labor starts? And, btw, what is ithe science that says it's ok to induce at 37 weeks so that now 40 weeks is considered late?

Another contradiction that baffles me is how the hospital is touted as the safest BECAUSE the doctor is there (in theory only.) I have seen one birth this year where the doctor was there at all before the mother was ready to push or they needed to get things going and finish it up -- "on the clock" of established time frames. My own grandson's doctor came in by 7:00 armed with Pit to "get that baby out." It's clear to most people that a physician can not be in three places at once -- labor and delivery, surgerical suites, and the office with 9-5 hours (home is number four). So, they run around and nurses manage the mother and baby anyway. Our baby was out by 8:30. Check that one off the list of "to do's" and off to the office.

If the doctor can be a half an hour away, why can't the mother labor or birth at home? I know, I know, it has to do with "management" and who has been managing. The transfer of a late stage laboring woman is something that hospitals and obstetetricians can work out a safe plan for with midwives.

What are your "favorite contradictions' of the obstetric practice?? When what they say is medically and scientifically sound and necessary is contradicted by the next doctor, nurse, or woman's situation?

4 comments:

Heather B. said...

I too don't know why we force a woman to deliver or go into the hospital when her water breaks. As long as objects are kept out of the vagina the risk of infection is slow especially with fluid frequently flowing DOWN the vaginal canal. The baby doesn't just slide out because the amniotic sac breaks.

Highland Midwife said...

I'm particulary fond of the fetal monitors. The caregivers tell women for 9 months not to lay on their backs because it restricts blood flow to the baby. Now in labor, with circulation more important than ever, they make her lay on her back so they can monitor the baby - and predictably watch the baby go into distress - from the ridiculous position mom is put into to monitor her!

And the benefit? The latest studies show that there is no increased benefit (no better outcome for baby) of continuous electronic monitoring over intermittent monitoring when it is done the way it should be. Just lots more interventions with EFM.

So keep that hand-held Doppler and good ole' fetoscope handy.

:-)
Grandma

heather b said...

How about that women who are past due by a week are often induced, though it has shown that the situation in the womb isn't typically dangerous until after 42 weeks? Some doctors induce at 40, some at 41 or 42.

Or, how about the fact that some doctors consider a baby term at 37 weeks, some at 38 weeks?

Or, that doctors know that babies are better off being born at term but frequently induce people prematurely 'just in case' they have something like a brain tumor, based on an ultrasound, as if birthing the 30 week-old infant gives it a better chance of handling brain surgery than waiting the extra few weeks for the child to develope more?

Or that they take big babies by C-section at 37 weeks, knowing that it is safer to leave them in until they are closer to the mother's due date?

heather b said...

I love also how they remind you that the ultrasound predection of gender isn't 100% accurate, but will then do something dangerous like schedule you for C-section because of a big baby or induce you prematurely because it looks like the child 'might' have an abnormality--when the chance of the ultrasound being wrong about abnormalities, weight, or due date is much higher than the chance they'll be wrong about gender.

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